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22 August 2013 @ 04:30 pm
Life Update  
In the never-ending series of breakdowns that has been life lately, my father-in-law is now back in the hospital, hot on the heels of Anissa's back being badly sprained. Only this round of FIL emergency has included head trauma from three falls in the last eighteen hours. He also isn't responding to simple instructions. I'm scared, guys, really and truly scared. There's been a lot lately that been very, very upsetting to me, just one RL things after another, but I don't want to make it sound like it's 'oh, woe is Lois'. That's about half the reason personal posting has been so slow around here. It's been hard, really hard, but I know everyone else's lives are difficult, so I keep my mouth shut. Also doesn't help that my own personal computer is out of commission right now [posting from Anissa's; she and the MIL are heading over with him].

But this time I kinda need a favor. Any good vibes you have lying around or prayers that you feel like sending would be incredible. I don't know where this round is going to end, but I could use the wishes. I love you guys. I'm sorry I haven't been around so much, but why rain on everyone else's parade?

saavikam77: Clark Tearssaavikam77 on August 23rd, 2013 12:06 am (UTC)
Oh, honey. *hugs you all super tight*

I wish I had some good ju-ju to send your way, but things here have gone to absolute crap. We lost the transmission on our car on the way home this evening and had to get the girl I work for to give us a lift. Bah.

*snuggles in and commiserates*

I really do hope things start to look up for you guys soon. Love you both so much.
Lois: Clois :: Don't Give Upkalalanekent on August 29th, 2013 02:15 pm (UTC)
I'm hoping things have evened out over there a little, especially with the car. It seems like, lately, the crazy is contagious. Can't just be one thing, oh no. Has to be five things at once.

Anissa's back is back to normal, thank God, but the FIL is still in the ICU. Should be there until at least next Monday and then we're going to be sending him to rehab for a few weeks because he's so damn weak. He was before, but after dodging death this time, we're determined that he's going to have a better quality of life, whether he likes it or not. We're in and out of the house between that and work.

Work is...work. That place is just constantly changing, some things that are just nonsensical are going on, and he's culling again. Just before seasonal. Gonna be another crazy Christmas, thankfully without me running FE, though.

We love you, too. As soon as I can have a life again, I promise to call. There just truly hasn't been time. It's about to be fall again, so I wanna start slamming through LaOH again because I'm ready for R&B. Seriously. I really think of them in Fall now. God, Fall. I can't wait for it to get here, too.
saavikam77: Clois Flightsaavikam77 on August 29th, 2013 02:55 pm (UTC)
*snugs you all super tight*

Things are doing better here. We got the car back last night, and so far so good (despite the mild drama surrounding whether or not there was actually anything wrong with the transmission *rolls eyes*). B's mom is back out of the hospital for the second time, and is doing a lot better. And B is in school and working hard. :p

Sending you some good thoughts and lots of hugs; we've totally been there with B's mom in the ICU and in rehab (2 summers ago she was in rehab for a month), so I feel your pain.

Just try to take it easy and not overdo things while life gets back to normal, and we'll talk when we talk. No rush.

Also, yes, fall needs to get here now! XD

*super smishes*

Love you guys!!
januaried: reeveverse :: superman :: forever in my januaried on August 28th, 2013 06:16 am (UTC)
Shit. :( This is late, but I really hope he and Anissa are okay. You know you guys are always in my thoughts with fingers crossed. Love you. <3
Lois: Clois :: Cute Cuddlekalalanekent on August 28th, 2013 02:03 pm (UTC)
They're getting there. And I'm still using Anissa's comp when I can. I'm hoping to be back to you by Friday, if we can get the issues worked out. I miss you so much. Everything is just craziness and work, with a little writing on the side this week.

Anissa's back is better, but Tom's still in the ICU and we expect him to be in the hospital and then rehab for a while. I'm going to do another Life Update tomorrow, as soon as we see him tonight. He's coming along, but slowly.

I love you! Wait for me!
januaried: reeveverse :: superman :: forever in my januaried on August 28th, 2013 04:04 pm (UTC)
Great; I'll still keep my fingers crossed just in case.

I've missed you so much! Lots to tell you (including an interview today *quietly hyperventilates*). I love you! Hang in there and I'll check back on Friday. <3
Lois: Clois :: Film Grain Lovekalalanekent on August 29th, 2013 03:02 pm (UTC)
INTERVIEW?!?! *tackles*

I can't wait to get caught up. I never expected it would take this long to get things back in order. Just seems like one thing after another. I'm just relieved to get back to writing after three weeks of nothing. I thought I was gonna go crazy.

januaried: reeveverse :: superman :: forever in my januaried on August 29th, 2013 07:37 pm (UTC)
Yeah, I can imagine! My poor baby. *hugs*

Um, the interview was a total failure. It was for U of Michigan Law Library, and I completely forgot about the time difference, so I missed them entirely. But I didn't particularly want to move far away anyway (unless it's to the FL area!) so oh well.

Talk to you soon hopefully! <3