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16 September 2011 @ 05:32 pm
10 Reasons Why Lois and I Will Be Together Forever  
This is your friendly local Voice of DOOM, hijacking Lois' journal to post something that should make her smile.  Some of these reasons are silly, some are serious, all are true.

1. If we ever break up, the rest of our writing wouldn't get finished, and y'all just would not let that happen.  Seriously, you HAVE to hear about Christopher Emo Boy, and Danielle from Into the Fire, and the ending of Across the Universe is going to kick ass...

2. She constantly challenges me to try new things and go new places, which I don't really do that well on my own - if not for her, I'd be a hermit living in a trailer with 30 dogs.

3. Our four dogs are bonded as a pack and cannot be separated without mental trauma.  Also, the two that are 'mine' are the crazy weird ones.  I can't let Lois get away with the normal, sweet dogs.

4. Her family finally likes me, and I like them.  It only took 10 years or so.  Now I'm looking forward to planning a vacation with all of them.  Her dad and I have a lot in common, and her mom and I trade plants from our gardens.

5. Lois and my mom are getting along these days.  Mom is super-protective - I'm an only child - and this is a major development.

6. If we split, we could never separate out which books and DVDs belong to whom, and there would be bitter fighting.  Plus, I love her esoteric collection of books way too much.

7. Lois is there for me when I'm depressed, she holds me when I cry, she's gotten me through some of the darkest times in my life.  I'm there for her when she's stressed and anxious, I've soothed her through panic attacks, I've been the one thing she holds onto.  We both always know that the other one has our back and we're never alone.  We both have flaws, we both fuck up as human beings, but when I need her, she rises up and becomes Super-Lois.  I hope - I try - to do the same for her.

8. The sex is fantastic. I will not provide details, but she's the best. ROWR.

9. We got together the second time in a very bad, hurtful way that left everyone involved with emotional scars. After dealing with years of fallout from that to get to where we are now, I will NOT give up on what we have for anything. The worst has already happened - lies, cheating, betrayal - and we've moved on from it.  These are the good times, and nothing that comes our way can change that.

10. Lois makes me feel like I might be able to become the person she thinks I am.  My ex ripped me apart emotionally and left my self-esteem in shreds.  Lois thinks I am beautiful, smart, funny, sexy, strong, competent, and generally awesome.  She makes me feel like I might actually be all those things.  And I know I am loved - I have never doubted her love and devotion.  I hope she never doubts mine.
saavikam77: Frost Heartsaavikam77 on September 16th, 2011 09:57 pm (UTC)
Awww... this is total love. ^_________^

*smishes you both*
Lois: Lush :: Soft Couer Lush Whorekalalanekent on September 17th, 2011 07:13 pm (UTC)
It really is and was totally unexpected. She's pretty good at knowing when I'm sinking and dragging me back up, even if it's by my hair.

*smishes back*
Loony Loopy Lea Lovegood: Anne | True Romance (With Gilbert)chickadilly on September 16th, 2011 10:36 pm (UTC)
This has me all d'awwwing for you guys! I hope one day I find a guy who makes me feel a tenth of what you feel for each other and he for me. <3

*squishes you both*
Lois: Clois :: Never More Perfectkalalanekent on September 17th, 2011 07:12 pm (UTC)
She's adorable, isn't she?

It's not all sugar roses and icing, but she's right that we were lucky enough to find each other. And I really can't imagine life without her and the hoards of dog.

And you will, bb. You'd be a treasure for anyone. And I say this honestly because I've met you in person. *snugs you tight*
Obsessed fangirl: Bones - hugsbabettew54 on September 17th, 2011 12:00 am (UTC)
No question, she will love it...

Can I just say how lucky you guys are to have found each other.....

You know that don't you... of course, you do..

Lois: Clois :: Never More Perfectkalalanekent on September 17th, 2011 07:17 pm (UTC)
She did and I was totally surprised by it. Anissa knew I was having a bad day and knew just how to pull me out of it. Nothing like scrolling your own LJ and going, "Wait, I didn't write that. What IS this?" XD

Very, very lucky is all I know. There are good days and bad days, but all relationships have those. And to have gotten all the major drama out when we were just kids? Yep, fifteen years of this makes me want to keep her. ;)

Edited at 2011-09-17 07:18 pm (UTC)
januaried: emotion: loving youjanuaried on September 17th, 2011 12:29 am (UTC)
This is an awesome list of Mrs. and Mrs. Awesome. In fact, it's so sweet and smile inducing I think my feelings about it should be expressed in GIFs. :D

This is how you two talking about your love and devotion to each other always makes me feel:

This is to Anissa, for making this post (and it's Harry and Hermione just to make Lois smile):

Finally... When you're feeling down or grumpy, imagine me chasing after you like this. I guarantee you'll laugh.

(in the platonic sense, lol)

Edited at 2011-09-17 12:29 am (UTC)
Lois: Fandom :: RV :: Lois Rizny Soulmateskalalanekent on September 17th, 2011 07:23 pm (UTC)
Oooh, I love you. *tacklesnuggles and giggles* These gifs. These gifs are just perfection. And awwww! I even got H/Hr with the rest of the loves. You really do love me! ;)

She really is good at knowing when I'm taking a header and grabs me by the back of my pants and moves me upward. There's good, there's bad, but then there's the moments where you just...you know it's perfect, despite the occasionally imperfections caused by life in general. If the real world issues didn't intrude, all would be well. She makes me crazy, but I need some crazy in my life.

And if you promise to do that whenever I'm down again, I promise to giggle, then laugh, then let you catch me. XD

That's SO you and me. *snuggles*