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01 October 2008 @ 12:29 am
A Second Request...  
... can I get a hug? I'm starting to wonder if this week can get any worse.

And having said this, it perversely will.

Everyone remind me that life just isn't fair sometimes and that it does get better.

I hate sounding this maudlin, but it's just been one thing after another this last two weeks. The only thing that has been going right is our writing progress.


*goes and buries herself in her writing*
On the Verge of: melancholymelancholy
januaried: SUPERMAN > concept > RV soulmatesjanuaried on October 1st, 2008 04:48 am (UTC)
*huge tacklesnuggle* I'm just on checking my email, but had to respond to this. It will get better, I promise, really. I'm still semi-here, and will be back, and your writing is indeed going fantastically. Remember, you are loved. ♥
Lois: Reeveverse :: Lois Rizny Soulmateskalalanekent on October 1st, 2008 04:56 am (UTC)
Do you promise? The loved part and the getting better? Because I think I really need to hear it. *sounds like a silly little kid, but doesn't care*

Edited at 2008-10-01 04:57 am (UTC)
(no subject) - januaried on October 1st, 2008 05:13 am (UTC) (Expand)
(no subject) - kalalanekent on October 1st, 2008 05:16 am (UTC) (Expand)
Grace: Scrubs; *hugs*repmetsyrrah on October 1st, 2008 04:52 am (UTC)
*Hugs from NZ*

Don't worry, it will get better. It always does.

*more hugs*
Lois: Kal-El Lois :: Comfortkalalanekent on October 1st, 2008 04:59 am (UTC)
*hugs you extra tight* Thank you, Grace. Things have just been very difficult here in RL lately and I just seem to be losing a lot of things lately that have taken me by surprise. Not a good time for Lois. *hugs you again*
Tamanna: kicking assswingandswirl on October 1st, 2008 05:17 am (UTC)
*pops up from the black hole that is Numb3rs fandom to hug the bejeezus out of you*

Aww, hon, things will get better. *glares at Universe* Stop picking on Lois, you!

*sends tons of hugs, cookies and good vibes*
Loiskalalanekent on October 1st, 2008 05:20 am (UTC)
*has to bite lip*

*sniffling and laughing* OMG, Tama! *hugs tight* OMG, I miss you! You have no idea how much it means that you came over! I was just talking to Anissa about you the other day.

*hugs you back twice as hard*

I miss you, girl!
winddancer55945: Boston Kisseswinddancer55945 on October 1st, 2008 05:18 am (UTC)
Sends you a great big *HUG*

Of course it will get better. I know very well that life is not fair, never has been fair and never will be fair. We just have to cope with it the best way that we can. We have to find the support of our family and friends at times. But that is what friends are for, is it not?

Great big *hugs* again.

Lois: LS :: Richois :: Familykalalanekent on October 1st, 2008 05:27 am (UTC)
And I'm very grateful to have you guys as my family. I just occasionally need a reminder that I'm more than an annoyance and I'm not as useless as I think I am.

*hugs tight*

Edited at 2008-10-01 05:30 am (UTC)
maaike_fluffy on October 1st, 2008 08:17 am (UTC)
*huggles Lois*
Lois: Superman Lois :: Lovekalalanekent on October 1st, 2008 06:03 pm (UTC)
*huggles Maaike right back*
sean_montgomery: Sailor Moon - wuv u/u 2sean_montgomery on October 1st, 2008 10:20 am (UTC)
Dropping in this very early morning to say that you will always get a hug from me, my Twin, and yeah, life isn't fair sometimes. But it DOES get better. Sometimes all you need is the aid of a "happy pill." ;) But most of the time, it's better to have a family around. I'm not sure that I'm one to say this since I was begging for reassurance earlier this month, but I'll go ahead and pitch in on the "it will get better" front. *snuggles you*

Love you, Twin.
Lois: Lois + Abby :: Twinkalalanekent on October 1st, 2008 06:06 pm (UTC)
*snuggles you right back* I think I really needed to hear that from you, Ab, and it's all the better that you can manage to see that it can get better, especially since you were there in the black hole not too long ago. See, I guess that's yet another thing that makes us twins.

Love you, too, Twin.
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Lois: Lois :: Facepalmkalalanekent on October 1st, 2008 06:07 pm (UTC)
*hugs Buddy Christ right back*


I love that icon, BTW.
saavikam77: Dean/Sam Hugsaavikam77 on October 1st, 2008 03:37 pm (UTC)
*ginormous huggles* I'm right there with you about things not going right. Love you, hon!!!
Lois: Kal-El Lois :: B&W Lovekalalanekent on October 1st, 2008 06:08 pm (UTC)
*snuggles and huggles right back* I hate being like this, but sometimes I just need a reminder. I've been feeling so useless lately unless I'm writing.
ColtDancer: happy thingscoltdancer on October 1st, 2008 06:23 pm (UTC)
Oh, you poor honey!! No, life is not, at the worse and most inopportune of times, fair. We've all heard it, we've all seen it, we've all lived it...and it sucks! BUT, I promise you it gets better.

I would break into Monty Python song right about now, but you might throw rotten foodstuffs at me, so I'll just hug you and squeeze you instead!! :)
Lois: LS :: Lois Jason :: Never Doubt Lovekalalanekent on October 2nd, 2008 05:22 pm (UTC)
Oh, Angie, I do adore you! You should have heard me laugh when I saw this. Thanks you so much, love! *squeezes you right back, but gently. No squishing Baby Coltdancer*
AlphieLJ: Anne Cryingalphielj on October 1st, 2008 08:09 pm (UTC)
Darlin', I'm proof that what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. I've had a shit year - and I don't use that word very often. Between my husband leaving me (with massive amounts of bill and no money to pay for it) and my website (my source of income) being hacked and everything in between, it's been a crap year. But I've come through it all. It's friends and family who love me care for me and keep me going that won't let me quit. Whatever you're going through, I promise you... PROMISE YOU... you will make it through. Go look at my entries from January and Feburary of this year for my own proof. I wasn't in good place at all, and yet here I am telling you now that you CAN do this, whatever it is. I know you're one strong gal. No one who likens herself to Lois Lane can give up on herself.

Lois: Lois :: Stresskalalanekent on October 3rd, 2008 06:29 pm (UTC)
Thanks, hon. I needed that. It's hard to remember things like that when the muck on your work situation is growing this bad. And I never like having to ask for sympathy. To be completely honest, I hate. But when you're in the pit, sometimes it's the only way to pull yourself out. There really are days lately that the only bright in my life (excluding Anissa) is the fact that the fandom appreciates me.

The meeting yesterday for my badly-needed vacation didn't improve that feeling much, especially not in the terms that it was given to me, but I know that I have you guys to help me pull through. And, most of the time, that's all I need. Again, thanks, Lori.

Edited at 2008-10-03 06:29 pm (UTC)
Obsessed fangirl: Lois and Clark - STM so closebabettew54 on October 1st, 2008 10:08 pm (UTC)
Aww, *ginormous hugs*!!
Lois: Kal-El Lois :: B&W Lovekalalanekent on October 2nd, 2008 04:33 am (UTC)
*quite happily takes the hugs*
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Lois: Kal-El Lois :: Comfortkalalanekent on October 2nd, 2008 04:32 am (UTC)
*Loooooooooooves you right back*
clarks_girlclarks_girl on October 1st, 2008 11:56 pm (UTC)
Ok here goes - In the last 2 weeks - my car is still in the repair shop after hitting a dog 2 weeks ago, I'm at the tail end of a bought of pneumonia that's had me bed ridden for the last week and a half (at least I didn't need my car) and I still sound like a pack a day drag queen; the bone scan done this week because I was recently diagnosed celiac has come back and I have the bones of a 75 year old and am on a path to Osteoporosis, and to top it all off I've been advised by my doctor I have to seriously consider giving up showjumping and or horse riding in general - Which is never going to happen.

Ok I feel much better for ranting now. Back to my X-Files marathon.
clarks_girlclarks_girl on October 1st, 2008 11:57 pm (UTC)
PS - I forgot to give you a hug {{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}
Lois: Superman Lois :: Lovekalalanekent on October 2nd, 2008 04:31 am (UTC)
XD *wipes tears of laughter from her eyes*

OMG, Jody, I love you so much it's unreal. *snuggles* That really is a list of bad there. I feel awful for complaning now. *hides*
Syd Gill: A: Chlois - It will be alrightsydgill on October 2nd, 2008 06:46 pm (UTC)
I know how you feel *giant hugs* But I do feel like things will get better. Sometime. Soon. *more hugs*
Lois: Superman Lois :: Lovekalalanekent on October 4th, 2008 07:40 pm (UTC)
I hate that you're feeling this way, too, Tage. *snuggles you to bits* I miss you, sweetheart. I hope things are getting a little better on the homefront. *ample hugs and kisses for you and the family*